You have an important gift to offer the world. You are in the right place at the right time. You have a golden opportunity to learn something extremely valuable about yourself through this experience. You are perfect as you are.
The irony of the bullying cycle is that your greatest adversary and the most significant and hurtful bully you will ever meet, is YOU. Think about it for a second. How many times in a day do you criticise, belittle or bemoan yourself? How many times do you complain about your body, the way you look, your height, your weight, your ability etc……….. You can, if you so wish, lay your painful story to rest in this moment. If you choose to reach deep inside yourself, forgive yourself your frailties, mistakes and perceived failures, forgive others their frailties, mistakes and perceived failures, and see the deep beauty that lives in your heart of hearts and the value and potential that you bring to this world; all external antagonists will pale in comparison. It is indeed as simple as that. Regardless of the intensity or ugliness of the situation you are facing right now, without your participation and willingness to believe that you are at least partly at fault, you are somehow defective or deficient; there is indeed no real problem. It becomes more a logical process, a problem to be solved, a riddle to be unravelled or a challenge to be overcome. If you choose NOT to believe that you are a “victim” and have no need to mold yourself to please another, then you can focus your attention on the important matter of extricating yourself from your unpleasant circumstances. You move from victim to problem solver in an instant. Instead of focusing on the problem, focus on the possible solutions and get moving!
When you master yourself, you master your world.
Our deepest wish and desire is to offer you something of value, something that will lift the burden you are feeling so that you may go on to create the exceptional life you were put on earth for. We want you to give yourself permission to shine the light that you carry deep in your heart, as far and as wide as you can.
“Life isn’t about how to survive the storm, it’s about how to dance in the rain.” – Unknown